Life that is ... it's never as easy as it should be.
I used to blog about good things, and about the things that made me happy.
Now it seems whenever I come to my blog to type a new post I am lost.
Lost you say ...
maybe it's just ornery ...
I always have a millions things running through my head.
I typically haven't been sleeping well.
I am usually in pain because of my Achilles Tendon Issues.
This Peri-menopause stuff is CRAP, CRAP, CRAP.
Hot-flashes are the worst!
Money always seems hard to find, while the bills are never ending.
and, and, and ...
Then there are the people issues.
Working on a relationship can send everyone into a bad place.
It seems we can never make every one happy.
Typically I don't worry about that, but then there are the people who you know you shouldn't have to worry about because you think, "they love me/us, they want the best for me/us" and so they will be OK with what we are doing.
Then BAM ... they are not OK with all the changes.
Suddenly if they are not first on the list of importance they panic
and forget we love them, because God forbid how could two grown adults love each other and then have enough love left for all the "other" people in our lives.
It's hard for the couple ... working through differences,
learning what each person likes and dislikes,
trying to keep it together while working on keeping everyone else happy to.
Finding a partner for life is difficult in this world because of all the obstacles.
We do not need more created by our people.
WE are only HUMAN.
We are in love ...
We want a life together.
We want that life to include all of "our" people.
We are not trying to hurt, segregate, or disown anyone,
we want to see our people happy too,
living the lives that make them the happiest.
When our people are happy, we are happy.
You must allow us to live our lives to.
Everyone is entitled to a bit of happiness in life,
it is so hard to find when you do,
you need to grab hold with everything you've got in you and hang on for dear life.
It can be a good thing if you let it happen and you join us for the ride.
Happiness they say, sneaks in through a door you didn't know you left open.